For me, if 2022 was a book in a series it would be the filler book that does nothing but set up for later stories.
I feel like I did a lot, and achieved some things, but at the same time, have nothing to show for the year that we're about to leave behind.
Maybe I'll hit the ground running when we get into 2023 or maybe I'll plod through the start, but mostly I don't want to be in the same place this time next year. I don't want to be stuck in this limbo that 2022 was trapped in.
It doesn't mean there was no progress, but it's all behind the scenes and that makes it feel like it didn't happen.
I know I'm moving forward, but sometimes it's hard to see when it happens so slowly, and it's easy to get disheartened. I'm clinging to motivation through the new year.
Earn a Reward
One of the things I do is reward myself when I achieve a task, especially if it's a boring one. I'm not saying I buy myself a bottle of champagne for every little accomplishment, but even a little extra reading time, a nice drink, watching a movie. Whatever gets the job done.
Break Up the Goal
Big things are easier to complete when broken up into smaller tasks, so that's what I do. I figure out what I want and then build the steps to reach it. I think looking at something like losing 3 stone in weight, or publishing a book can be intimidating when looked at, but starting small like getting into healthy habits or writing character profiles make is much more realistic.
Why Do This?
Sometimes when I'm struggling or disheartened, I have to think about
why I'm pushing myself. Why am I sitting at my computer two days after Christmas working when I could be doing something else? I visualise the end result. I need to know exactly what I want so that I can keep going.
Prepared for Set-Backs
The trajectory of
success is never straightforward. I'm not shooting straight ahead. I falter, I get rejected, I make mistakes, and I do things wrong. Sometimes, I just straight out fail. I take time to feel bad about it, I cry, I complain and then I try again.
Still Trying
2022 is on its way out and 2023 is coming which means I'm almost onto the next book of this series called life.
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