Have you ever gone up to an acquaintance and suggested
they get plastic surgery to alter their appearance? Maybe a nose job, a face
lift, liposuction? No? Me neither, because it’s rude, and pretty damn
offensive.
Yet I’ve had four women, three of whom I only know a
little, suggest that I have a breast reduction. Why? The only complaint I’ve
ever made about my breast size is how difficult it is to shop for tops and
dresses, which is an issue many women have. It’s why we try clothes on before
we buy.
So, why are there women out there who think nothing of
coming over to me and asking me why I don’t get a breast reduction?
I don’t suffer from back pain, I can lie comfortably on
my front in bed, I don’t run so black eyes isn’t an issue. I’m eating healthy
to lose weight, I’m a member of a weight loss group, and I’m not secure in my
appearance, but whether the reason behind the comments is meant as helpful
advice, bringing up the subject of cosmetic surgery in relation to my body,
doesn’t help my mission for body-positivity.
However, since losing a stone and a half through dieting, I find
myself growing more confident in the way I look now, but this time last
year, I was so down on myself that I didn’t care how I dressed, I didn’t wear
makeup, I didn’t do anything with my hair. I couldn’t see the point, but making
the changes to my lifestyle has had an impact on my mental and physical health.
It’s not just watching my weight go down, it’s feeling
the difference to my fitness and my health. I’m not an athlete. I don’t go to
the gym. I’m naturally a lazy person, but since eating healthy, the crawl
towards physical acceptance has been slow but it is happening.
Then someone suggests a breast reduction and it knocks me
back. For whatever reason people think it’s acceptable to comment on my body
all the time. Walking down the street, out with my friends, in professional
situations: My breasts have been commented on by mere acquaintances and perfect
strangers alike.
I’ll talk comfortably with my friends, but if you’re
coming up to suggest I get a breast reduction, then it’s not because of
anything I’ve said, or how I feel. Those are your issues. I don’t know why some
people are so concerned with my breast size, and I don’t want to know.
If it’s not your body, it’s not your business. Keep your
opinions to yourself.
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