Christmas is fast approaching, and it's going to be expensive. With not much money free to spend, the only way to get through it is to plan ahead. Which is why I'm getting ready for Christmas in September. Also, I love Christmas, even when I can't afford it, so I get excited early.
Sunday, 31 August 2025
Christmas is Coming
Wednesday, 6 August 2025
Negative or Positive
I've been feeling overwhelmed lately, and as a result, my romance writing has taken a hit.
Mission Get-a-House is going at a snail's pace, and at times it feels like it's never ever ever going to happen, but I'm trying not to let the negativity get me down. It does make me feel like I'm in limbo, though. Life is on hold.
Invisible Income
Jumping Through Hoops
Not Giving Up
Sunday, 6 July 2025
August is for Writing...
...Because July is too hectic for it.
Thankful for my Notebook Collection
It's times like these that I'm glad I have a slight stationery addiction. There are a lot of notebooks in my arsenal, and they have come in handy when I have a few minutes here and there and no time to get to my computer.What Happened to July
August is for Words
Alphas Make Great Romance
Calum Needs Love Too
Just a Few Weeks
Monday, 23 June 2025
Council House? Yeah, Right...
I have no home but me - Anne Truitt
This blog post might sound like a bit of a rant, but it's not meant to be. It stems from frustration. I'm a writer with a day job, and more importantly, I'm a mother. I do content writing, fiction writing, and transcribing. I work in retail. I do what I can.
What I don't have is a house of my own. As I've mentioned in a previous post, my current mission is to get a home for my little family. Honestly, though, it's not going well. Okay, that's an understatement. It's going terribly.
Council Housing
Financial Realities
What Can I Do?
Tuesday, 27 May 2025
No Steps Forward
I've taken no steps forward, but I've taken none backwards either and sometimes, staying in place feels like progress. My goal is to buy a house, but I can't say I'm any further forward than when I started. Well, maybe a tiny bit, but not enough to get me to my target any time soon.
I'm a romance writer, and I'm trying to earn an income that way, but it's a very very slow process, so it's not really the part of my life that contributes financially to saving for a house.
Invisible Writer
Budgeting
Staying Still
Perseverance
Sunday, 9 February 2025
This is Not a New Year's Resolution
It's a goal.
Previously in the Life of a Romance Writer
What's Next?
Throw Everything at It Again
Time to Work
Sunday, 4 August 2024
Magic of Music
Right now, I'm lying in bed listening to music while I write, and I’ve gotten caught up in a whirlwind of songs I used to love but haven’t listened to in a long time. The thing is, that these songs are tied to past memories. Feelings, moments long gone. Even story ideas – some I recorded, others I’d forgotten.
According to the Washington Post, evidence suggests that music
has such a powerful connection with our brain that listening to it can cause
our brains to release dopamine, the pleasure/reward hormone, and it can reduce
the impact of the stress hormone cortisol.
It’s also used as a way to reach people with dementia. Listening to a song that played at an important moment in their life, helps them find that memory. For me, it's a component of being a romance writer.
Music Memory Evolution
There aren’t many people to whom music isn't important. My
memories of it go all the way back to being 5 years old and dancing to my mum’s
Diana Ross - Chain Reaction record.
I listened to her Carpenters cassette in bed and then discovered the music I love. Starting with The Backstreet Boys, taking a
tour through Britney and Christina to Pink then onto Aerosmith and Queen, a
detour to Michael Crawford and Michael Ball as I discovered musicals and then
onto The Killers and Frank Turner.
The beauty of music is that there’s always more to discover.
Classic and new. So many genres.
I’ll never forget my first time watching Wicked in the West
End when Elphaba Sang Defying Gravity, I’ll never forget being at the front of
the crowd to listen to Frank Turner at the Y Not Festival.
Music and Writing
Now, I use music to write. Different artists for different
scenes that I’ve imagined and written. I can hear a particular song and it will
take me to that specific piece of writing.
Whenever I get writer's block the fastest way to cure it is
to put my earphones in and go for a walk, and that easily scenes will play out
in my head.
Music and writing go hand in hand.
Music and Dreaming
It’s not only connected to memories and writing but to hopes and dreams too. There are songs that take me to places I want to go. Things I want to do. Music is so intrinsically weaved throughout our every day that it’s no surprise it has an almost magical connection with our brains.
The power of music is still being studied, along with its
impact on mental and physical health, but for me, it’s tied to the imagination and
to the past, present and future.
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